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  • Give Dad a Personalized Copy of Stay!

    Give Dad a Personalized Copy of Stay!

    Father’s Day is just around the corner. Some of you have told me you plan to give a copy of Stay: Lessons My Dogs Taught Me about Life, Loss, and Grace to your Dad or Grandfather. In my very biased world that is MUCH better than a tie!

    I have Autograph plates ready to send out that you can place inside the book before you give it. Just send your address and how you want the plate inscribed to dave@daveburchett.com or send me a personal message with the info on Facebook. I will sign the autograph plate and return it to you. I pay the postage as my small thank you to you!

    You can get Stay at Barnes and Noble, Booksamillion, Mardels and online at Amazon, Christianbook.com, and Barnes and Noble.You link to the online booksellers from the “Order Now” link at the top right of this page.

    I would love to help you celebrate your Dad or Granddad this year. But hurry so you won’t miss out on this really unique gift.

  • What Does God Want From You and Me?

    What Does God Want From You and Me?

    Regular readers of these humble ramblings know that I love music and the power of lyrics to implant truth in my heart. The group Tenth Avenue North is especially good at doing that for me. A new song resonated from the moment I heard it. What You Want is a powerful plea to give up my personal agenda and my need to be in control. You can check it out here.  Here is a sample of the lyrics.

    Everyday I’ve been feeling the pressure
    I always gotta know the plan
    It’s a weight that I’ve tried to shoulder

    I thought I could, but I can’t
    And I’m so tired of chasing dreams
    When I am wired to let you lead
    But I resist that innate wiring to follow God and I try to control my path. James wrote about our attempts to “control” our future.
    Look here, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we are going to a certain town and will stay there a year. We will do business there and make a profit.” How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow? Your life is like the morning fog—it’s here a little while, then it’s gone. What you ought to say is, “If the Lord wants us to, we will live and do this or that.” Otherwise you are boasting about your own pretentious plans, and all such boasting is evil.
    (James 4:13-15, NLT)
    Indeed. I have no idea what my life could be like tomorrow. I know all too well how one phone call can change everything. But this post and the song by Tenth Avenue North is not about hopelessness. It is about realizing where hope is found.
    You’re changing my heart
    To want what You want
    To love what You love
    And that is enough
    There’s no greater plan that I need to know
    You only ask me to follow
    I wrote about this simple and often overlooked fundamental of simply following Jesus in my book Stay: Lessons My Dogs Taught Me about Life, Loss, and Grace.

    I think I falter because I make faith and trust entirely too complicated. Jesus didn’t say figure out every theological jot and tittle. (Note to spiritual hall monitors: there is an important place for that discipline. No e-mails please). Jesus didn’t say, “Go and clean up your act, and I will deem you a worthy follower.” He didn’t say, “Browbeat yourself and others into behaving better in order to earn the badge of righteousness.” He simply said,

    “Follow me.”

    Not once. Pretty regularly.

    “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will make you fishers of men.” (Matthew 4:19)

    Jesus told him, “Follow me.” (Matthew 8:22)

    [Jesus said,] “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” (Matthew 16:24)

    [Jesus answered,] “Come, follow me.” (Matthew 19:21)

    Finding Philip, he said to him, “Follow me.” (John 1:43)

    [Jesus replied,] “Whoever serves me must follow me.” (John 12:26)

    Jesus answered, “If I want him to remain alive until I return, what is that to you? You must follow me.” (John 21:22)

    “Follow me,” he told him, and Matthew got up and followed him. (Matthew 9:9)

    In the immortal words of Forrest Gump, “I’m not a smart man.” But like Forrest I have a keen sense of the obvious. Jesus is saying to follow Him. That takes childlike trust on my part. The rest of it we will figure out together as I follow Him in complete trust.

    Taken from Stay by Dave Burchett copyright © 2015. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc. All rights reserved.

    Here comes the part that is difficult for most of us summed up in this lyric.

    Oh I’m feelin’ this surrender

    Surrender. That is such a negative concept in this culture. We need to reclaim the positive meaning of that word for followers of Jesus. For most people surrender means weakness. Giving up. Capitulation. Soldiers who surrender are hopeless and even scorned. In the upside down world of the Gospel of Grace surrender is a sign of strength. The miracle of grace is that surrender means freedom.

    I feel myself come alive
    And the burden feels like a feather
    When I let my agenda die
    The message is that we truly find contented joy when we want what God wants and love what He loves. God doesn’t need more leaders. He needs more followers ready to follow His lead.
  • Quit Trying So Dadgum Hard!

    Quit Trying So Dadgum Hard!

    Recently my buddy Ed Underwood (you should read his books and blog) texted that he had found the official anthem for Christians who try to live this journey in their own insufficient strength. I agreed so much that I asked his permission to steal his insight for today’s musing. I will not share the details of the deal but it may or may not involve a future karaoke performance at the fabulous Garman’s Restaurant and Irish Pub in Santa Paula, California. But that unfortunate possibility is not today’s topic.

    Ed had texted that rock icon Janis Joplin’s song “Try (Just a Little Bit Harder)” perfectly summed up the frustration of Christians who think that just a little more effort or doing more of the right things will make them holy. It is a losing game. Joplin’s lyrics address a love interest but they fit perfectly into the frustrating cry of many followers of Jesus trying desperately to “be holy”.

    Yeah, I’m gonna try yeah, just a little bit harder
    So I can give, give, give, give him every bit of my soul.

    I spent a lot of years alternating between trying harder, giving up, feeling guilty and trying harder again. What I got was not godliness. What I got was tired.

    When I was a kid the preachers used to bellow about revival. We need REVIVAL! They preached in ALL CAPS ALL OF THE TIME! They would have week long revival meetings badgering us to sell out. We got yelled at about our sin. We heard clearly a message of condemnation and fear. We heard that we had better shape up or else! We heard stories about backslidden Christians burning in hell because they wouldn’t repent. We heard that we had better get serious about Jesus.  And we believed we would. That fear based compliance lasted for a day or two or maybe a couple of months if we really got convicted. But it didn’t last.

    Then I stumbled on a different message. What if the truths of grace so beautifully detailed in the book “The Cure” are true?

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    What if the secret to living this journey is not trying harder but simply living out of what Jesus has already done for me?

    What if revival is based not on avoidance of damnation but on having an actual relationship with God? What if Christians really understood that they are new creatures when they put their trust by faith in Jesus? What if Christians truly got that there is no condemnation for them because of the Cross? What if Christians really understood that they are no longer have to prove anything and they could instead trust God for their spiritual growth? What if Christians saw that Jesus stood beside them ready to resolve their sin instead of looking with disappointment from afar? What if Christians learned to trust God and others with who they really are and dropped the dadgum masks? (My grandfather’s favorite Christian cuss word). What if Christians had the courage to put their full weight on these truths of identity and grace and allowed God to love them and others through them? These are the truths I have learned, refined and had a chance to live with my friends at Truefaced and other assorted misfits around the country.

    Here is what one tired and discouraged Christian experienced when I began to understand the message of grace. It is changing me. And I have had the best years with Jesus of my four decades plus on the journey. I have had some really good spiritual seasons along the way but I have never had the consistency of joy and peace that I have experienced since I trusted these truths of grace. I have never felt such spiritual freedom until I leaned into grace that allows me to love God, receive love from Him and allow that to flow to others.

    What if Christians really trusted who God says He is? Could we change our walk with Jesus? Could we change our family? Our church? Our culture? Dare we believe this?

    I have often quoted from my friends at Truefaced. This statement rocked my world many years ago.

    If you are a Christian God is not interested in changing you. That has already happened. You were changed when you trusted Christ. You were imputed with His righteousness. Your very spiritual DNA was rewritten and you became a new person. So the change happened right away. God is now interested in maturing you into what is already true about you.

    We are made right with God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are. For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. Yet God freely and graciously declares that we are righteous. He did this through Christ Jesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins.  (Romans 3:22-23, NLT)

    Remind yourself daily who you are. What is already true about you. That you are a new person. Righteous because of Christ. A new life has begun in you.

    Live it joyfully and without condemnation. You are deeply loved by God today. Breathe that into your soul and quit trying so hard! I pray it will change your journey like it has mine.

    (Read an excerpt from Stay:Lessons My Dogs Taught Me about Life, Loss, and Grace)

  • Change Me From the Inside Out

    Change Me From the Inside Out

    Watching the news on television is depressing. Election years seem to pour fuel on the culture war fires. I much prefer to spend my leisure moments reading, listening to music and walking with canine friend Maggie. Today a song on my from Seventh Day Slumber caused me to ask some questions about the way the church engages our culture. The song is From the Inside Out.

    My heart and my soul
    I give You control
    Consume me from the inside out Lord
    Let justice and praise
    Become my embrace
    To love You from the inside out

    Change happens from the inside out. I wrote about the culture war in my book “When Bad Christians Happen to Good People”. Here is an excerpt from that discussion.

    If I were to ask the average Christian what victory in the culture war would look like today, I would probably get answers along these lines: Abortion would be outlawed. Homosexuality would be less visible. The Ten Commandments would hang in every courthouse, and kids would pray in school.

    But would accomplishing these objectives constitute true victory? Most of us think it is our mission as Christians is to rid the world of sin. That is not going to happen until Jesus returns to reign. We have tried through politics and failed miserably. We have tried boycotts. We tried advertising and media with very mixed results. We have targeted immorality but have not helped those hurt by or entrapped in it. We fight abortion. We fear same sex relationships. We denounce drugs. We battle Hollywood and television and the evil media. We criticize the music industry.  We rail against pornography.

    As a young man who grew up in the ’50s and ’60s, I can confirm that all of the aforementioned cultural indicators now sought by many Christians were once in place: There was no legalized abortion or aggressive gay political agenda. We prayed at school functions and watched Ozzie and Harriet on television instead of Scandal or The Real Housewives of Dallas. Pornography was not easy to obtain. Yet the sexual revolution, recreational drugs, violent political protest, and explosive racial tension emerged from this very era. Hmmm.

    We Christians have missed our calling. The church needs to understand that even if we devoured every single moral issue on our evangelical plates, the people of this world would still be seeking meaning and purpose in their lives. All of the cultural issues I’ve mentioned so far are merely symptoms of a bigger problem: the internal condition of millions of people. Political and legal processes can only restrain sin. Advertising campaigns or education can, at best, only restrain behavior, and that is not a viable long-term solution. Only the changing of individuals can really affect a society as a whole. And that is where we have missed the boat. We can attempt legislation of morals until the end of time. But change comes from the inside (heart) out…rarely from the outside (rules) in. We cannot herd sin neatly into our theological corral. Sin cannot be managed by moralism. Christians are more identified by what we oppose than who we follow.

    How did the early church have such a profound impact with no money, power or influence? By giving their heart and soul to God. They gave Him control and out of that surrender they gave and served selflessly. They loved the unlovable. Cared for those that no one else would care for. Risked their lives to comfort those dying of infectious disease and sacrificed their own possessions for orphans and widows. Their lives were so powerful that the culture could not help but notice. Even the pagan writers of the day marveled at the sacrifice of these “Christians”. The followers of Christ who changed the world did not drive fancy cars and have perfect hair. They sold out in complete trust and allowed God to change them from the inside out. They served sacrificially.

    Jesus talked about the danger of a religion that tries to work from the outside in.

    “What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are so careful to clean the outside of the cup and the dish, but inside you are filthy—full of greed and self-indulgence! You blind Pharisee! First wash the inside of the cup and the dish, and then the outside will become clean, too.” (Matthew 23, NLT)

    That is my prayer for today. I want to live from the inside out. I have been changed but I want to live out of that truth. Don’t think that I am against having heartfelt convictions about cultural issues. I am not. But I am against communicating those concerns to a hurting world apart from grace and the love of Christ. God’s plan will be accomplished. In the meantime we need to be loving others selflessly.

    Everlasting, Your light will shine
    When all else fails
    Never-ending, Your glory goes
    Beyond all fame
    And the cry of my heart
    Is to bring You praise
    From the inside out

    That is the cry of my heart today.

  • It Really Isn’t Funny How Time Slips Away

    It Really Isn’t Funny How Time Slips Away

    Recently the life odometer rolled over another year so it was only fitting that a little tune from Willie Nelson caught my attention. The song is titled “Funny How Time Slips Away” and it is one of his signature songs. I realize that Willie is, for some, an acquired taste. I do not endorse Willie’s recreational choices or his tax paying discipline but I do love his ability to make lyrics real. In this song he laments the loss of a love.

    Well hello there my it’s been a long long time
    How am I doin’ oh I guess that I’m doin’ fine
    It’s been so long now but it seems now it was only yesterday
    Gee ain’t it funny how time slips away

    It is not really funny how time slips away. It is downright scary. It seems like yesterday that I was playing sandlot baseball as a kid. Moments ago I was in high school being ADD before ADD was cool. It feels like yesterday that I met the stunning Joni Banks and somehow conned her into dating me. Couldn’t have been too long ago that I donned the hideous baby blue tux to wed my beloved. Wasn’t it just weeks ago that three adorable baby boys came into our lives? And how is it possible that I am now directing the baseball exploits of athletes that were not close to being born when I started this gig?

    Time does slip away. The best line on parenting I have heard is that the days are long but the years are short. Amen. I now am the father of a 38 year old, a 36 year old, and a 30 year old. When did that happen? Married almost 40 years. Are you kidding me?

    I have had, if I may borrow the franchise of Frank Capra, a wonderful life. Not devoid of tragedy and trouble to be sure. I have lost a very dear nephew to leukemia, a daughter to terminal birth defects, my father and mother and many other family members and friends. My bride battled cancer ten years ago. No one gets out of this life unscathed. But we are blessed beyond comprehension. I believe that is because we have found our reason for being here. Rick Warren summed it up nicely in an interview.

    People ask me, What is the purpose of life? And I respond, In a nutshell, life is preparation for eternity. We were made to last forever, and God wants us to be with Him in Heaven. One day my heart is going to stop, and that will be the end of my body – but not the end of me. I may live 60 to 100 years on earth, but I am going to spend trillion of years in eternity. This is the warm-up act, the dress rehearsal. God wants us to practice on earth what we will do forever in eternity. We were made by God and for God, and until you figure that out, life isn’t going to make sense.

    Life is a series of problems: Either you are in one now, you’re just coming out of one or you’re getting ready to go into another one. The reason for this is that God is more interested in your character than your comfort. God is more interested in making your life holy than He is in making your life happy. We can be reasonably happy here on earth, but that’s not the goal of life: The goal is to grow in character, In Christ-likeness.

    If this is the warm-up act for my eternity gig on the main stage then all of this is merely preparation. Football players hate the two-a-day practices in the brutal heat. But they love the exhilaration of victory that the difficult preparation makes possible. Sometimes the two-a-days of life seem cruel and without purpose. But my understanding of the God who made me and His purpose for me allows me to believe there is purpose and design. I don’t always see it. I love being happy and carefree. But if my purpose is preparation for my real gig then I can trust that God is growing me in character. Paul wrote this in the book of Colossians.

    Since you have been raised to new life with Christ, set your sights on the realities of heaven, where Christ sits at God’s right hand in the place of honor and power. Let heaven fill your thoughts. Do not think only about things down here on earth. For you died when Christ died, and your real life is hidden with Christ in God. And when Christ, who is your real life, is revealed to the whole world, you will share in all his glory. (Col 3, NLT)

    The song continues…

    I gotta go now I guess I’ll see you around
    Don’t know when though never know when I’ll be back in town
    But remember what I tell you in time you’re gonna pay
    And it’s surprising how time slips away

    The songwriter is correct. In time you’re gonna pay. But not in the sense that the lyric implies. And not in the heavy handed way that too many Christians threaten eternal damnation to those who oppose them. We are created to be in fellowship with our Creator and you will pay a price if you ignore that truth. You will pay a price of less fulfillment, purpose and joy during this life. Time is slipping away for all of us. Enjoy the journey of preparation. We never know how many mile markers remain.

  • Give a Personalized Copy of Stay and Help Patriot Paws!

    Give a Personalized Copy of Stay and Help Patriot Paws!

    I am partnering with Patriot Paws and donating a portion of the advances and royalties for Stay and my next book releasing in 2017. Patriot Paws is an organization that trains service dogs to assist veterans who deal with PTS, mobility and  other injuries.

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    Go to Amazon, Barnes and Nobles or other book sellers to buy a copy of Stay. Then private message me at my Facebook author page and I will send you a personalized autograph plate to place inside the book. Here is an example…

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    Give a special gift (or receive one) and help a wonderful cause!

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  • I Once Was Lost…

    I Once Was Lost…

    I was honored and blessed to witness a very emotional day at Patriot Paws recently in Rockwall, Texas. “Matching Day” was the culmination of two years of training for some special service dogs and two years (or more) of agonizing waiting for some deserving veterans.

    The graduating service dogs are introduced to the veterans during some training and social sessions. The staff watches the interaction and chemistry between various canine/veteran combinations. Then the trainers match the veteran with the best fit for their needs.

    The veterans might have had a hunch but did not know for sure until the official “Matching Day” ceremony. Watching the tears stream down the faces of these men as they officially met their new companion was heartwarming. Many of you know that I have committed to share a portion of royalties and advances from Stay and my next book project due out in 2017 with the Patriot Paws organization. After watching Friday I am convinced I made a great decision to partner with this group.

    I had the privilege of presenting personalized copies of Stay to each veteran. I am not one to cry easily but it was quite easy on Friday as I watched these men become a team with a faithful friend.

    This is just one of four amazing stories. Bomber is a yellow Labrador that was just a few days away from being euthanized at a shelter. Someone saw something in this puppy and they paid $5 to save him. Bomber found his way into the Patriot Paws training program and he was a natural. He graduated recently and on Friday was paired with a deserving veteran. How cool is that? This is Bomber.

    His new human teammate shared that he had been abandoned and raised in a foster home. One rescued hero and one rescued service dog make for the kind of story that we need to hear more often.

    I remembered receiving a phone call a few years ago from youngest son and dog lover Brett. He had spotted five abandoned puppies along the side of the road in Waco. He tried to round them up but could only catch one. Brett called to let me know that he intended to bathe, feed, care for the dog and then take him to the Humane Society on Monday for adoption. I knew I was in trouble when Brett decided to let me know what his rescued puppy looked like.
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    I called the lovely Mrs.Burchett. “He is working me,” I told her. “He is falling in love with this dog.” On Sunday I was driving through Waco and I stopped to see Brett and his alleged short term friend. The way this puppy followed Brett around and looked at him was astounding. He appeared to sense that Brett was, for him, the canine version of Amazing Grace. That dog seemed to understand that he once was lost and now was found. Maybe if we remembered our dramatic rescue along the side of the road to destruction we might gaze at our Rescuer more consistently with such a look of adoration.

    I also started falling in love with this improbable mutt and concluded that our family dog population had just increased. Brett was scheduled to take “Trigger” to the vet for shots and a checkup on Monday. On that day another phone call came. Trigger had become violently ill overnight. The scourge of too many abandoned puppies seemed to have attacked this sweet little ragamuffin mutt. Trigger had contracted Parvovirus. Brett’s words were heartbreaking in their honesty and love.

    “Dad, I don’t think he is going to make it. But at least he knew he was loved for a few days.”

    That remark from my youngest touched my heart and made me think that this is a microcosm of ministry. Sometimes it is heartbreaking. The results don’t always match our desires. But if we can love the down and out like Jesus at least they know they have been loved and they will know the source of that love.

    For I was hungry, and you fed me. I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger, and you invited me into your home. I was naked, and you gave me clothing. I was sick, and you cared for me. I was in prison, and you visited me.’
    “Then these righteous ones will reply, `Lord, when did we ever see you hungry and feed you? Or thirsty and give you something to drink? Or a stranger and show you hospitality? Or naked and give you clothing? When did we ever see you sick or in prison, and visit you?’ And the King will tell them, `I assure you, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!’ (Matt 25, NLT)

    The results are not guaranteed when you minister to the least of these. But when we do minister to the least of these we show them the very face of Jesus.

    This one had a happy ending. Trigger was in the hospital for 12 days of intravenous feeding and medication. I earned hundreds of airline miles on my credit card thanks to Trigger. He and Brett have been best buddies going on ten years.

    Those canine connections are life changing. Finding that puppy changed my son. Finding service companion friends for our veteran heroes is changing lives one four legged friend at a time. If you are looking for a place to give that you know will produce good results I would suggest you check out Patriot Paws. I am grateful that I found them. With your help, like that rescued puppy Trigger, these heroes will know they are loved.